How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 04:32
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
That's it for today.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Which feels physically better for guys: vaginal sex or anal sex?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Does not procrastinate.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Have you worn a tight black mini skirt?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Can the effects of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) be reversed?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
All of the new features coming to Apple’s iOS apps - TechCrunch
Do not set goals—set systems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What's the gayest thing you have experienced on an only boys sleepover?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
What I need from you?
What is your wildest experience in Bangalore that you haven’t told anyone?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Procrastinates a lot.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.